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Multi-Dimensional Sexual Esteem Scale Survey (Livejournal)
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Thank you for your interest in my research! My name is Kat Scoggin and I am a graduate student at San Francisco State University in the Human Sexuality Studies program. With this research, I am trying to develop a survey that can measure self-esteem related to sexuality. This survey is about sexual esteem. The survey will have about 60 short statements that show thoughts, opinions, or feelings that some people might have related to their sexuality. You will be asked to rate how you think each statement applies to you. You will also be asked a few demographic questions like your age and sex. You can skip questions or just close the survey if you do not want to finish. The survey should take 30-40 minutes or less. At the end, you will be taken to a different web site to enter a raffle to win a $40 Visa gift card. The raffle page will ask you for contact information, but it will not be connected to your survey answers or used for anything other than the raffle. The survey is confidential. If you are 18 years old or older and understand English (please answer the questions below), you will be directed to a consent form.
If you are under 18, you cannot participate in this study. Are you 18 or older?
Yes
No

You must have some understanding of English to participate in this study. How would you rate your fluency in English?
It is my native language.
I am fluent.
I can read and write, but not speak very well in English.
I know only a little English.

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Implied Consent
San Francisco State University Implied Consent to Participate in a Research Study (Sexual Esteem) The information gathered from this survey will be used for research on sexual esteem. The survey questions will be about self-esteem related to sexuality. You will also be asked some demographic questions. You have been invited to participate because you are an adult aged 18 or older. There are minimal risks to you in participating in this survey. Some of the questions could be considered sensitive and cause discomfort for some people. At any time, you can stop taking the survey. You may choose to participate or not. You may answer only the questions you feel comfortable answering, and you may stop at any time. If you do not wish to participate, you may simply close the survey window, with no penalty to yourself. If you do participate, completion and submission of the survey indicates your consent to the above conditions. At the end of the survey, you may be asked to provide an email address IF you are interested in participating in further research. If you give your email address, both your email and your survey responses will be assigned a random number that will be used to connect your future survey responses to the survey you take today. Your email address will NOT be in the survey data and will not be connected to your survey answers. You may enter a raffle to win a $40 Visa gift card at the end of the survey. Your contact info for the raffle will not be linked to your responses. The survey should take approximately 30-40 minutes to complete. Any questions or concerns should be directed to the principal investigator, Kat Scoggin, at researcherkat@gmail.com or the research advisor, Dr. Ryan Howell at rhowell@sfsu.edu.

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Referral List
The questions in this survey are about your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs about things related to sexuality. This page has a list of websites and resources that might help if you start to feel uncomfortable or have a negative reaction. Please print this page so you can refer to this list if you decide not to complete the survey. Information and Questions Answered About Sex and Sexuality: www.plannedparenthood.com – Informational web site, directory to local clinics www.positive.org – Informational web site, email support primarily aimed at youth. www.sfsi.org – Email/Phone support community.livejournal.com/vaginapagina (for women) – Online community about everything related to women’s sexual health. A great place to ask “is this normal?” questions. Pregnancy/Contraception/Abortion www.americanpregnancy.org – Informational web site www.abortionclinic.org – Directory of abortion clinics www.ec-help.org/ - Informational web site, directory of pharmacies that provide access to Emergency Contraception www.goaskalice.com – Informational web site with email question support Queer Identity Support www.pflag.org – Informational/support web site, directory of local chapters http://www.susans.org/ - directory of all kinds of transgender resources Rape/Sexual Violence www.rainn.org – Rape Abuse Incest National Network 1-800-656-HOPE – Sexual Assault National Helpline Mental Health www.suicidehotlines.com - directory of state suicide crisis lines 1-800-273-TALK (8255) – national suicide hotline www.psychologytoday.com – directory of psychologist organized by location, specialty, therapy style, cost, and insurance availability

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Demographics

Age:

Sex (biological sex):
Male
Female
Intersexed
Undergoing sex change
Other:

Gender Identity:
(Select all that apply.)
Male
Female
No gender/Genderneuter
Bigender
Unsure/Undecided
Transgender
Other:

Ethnicity: A few popular American ethnic identities are listed below. Please feel free to write in your own answer.
Euro-American
Mexican, Mexican-American, Chicana/o
African-American
Jewish
Arab
Caribbean, Caribbean-American
Chinese, Chinese-American (Han)
Chinese, Chinese-American (non-Han)
Japanese, Japanese-American
Korean, Korean-American
Mestizo, Metis (Indigenous American & European mixed ancestry)
Hawaiian Native
Inuit
Mayan
Aymaran
Other:

Socio-Economic Status: Socio-Economics status is a combined measure of you and/or your family's economic and social position compared to other people. It is based on either your or your household's overall income, level of education, and job. If you are a college student, think about the household you grew up when answering this question.
Lower
Lower Middle
Upper Middle
Upper

Education:
Terminal degree (law, medical, doctorate, etc.)
University degree/Bachelor's degree
Associate's degree/certificate
Some college/university
High School/Secondary School/GED
At what age did you stop school?:

Relationship style: (this might or might not reflect your current relationship status)
Monogamy
Poly-Fidelity (more than 2 people in a committed, exclusive relationship)
Polyamory (more than 2 people in a relationship, not necessarily exclusive)
Single (no need/desire to be a committed, exclusive relationship of any kind)
Other:

Sexual Orientation:
Asexual
Heterosexual
Hetero-flexible (attracted mostly to the opposite sex, but have some attraction to same sex)
Bisexual
Homo-flexible (attracted mostly to the same sex, but have some attraction to opposite sex)
Homosexual
Pansexual (attraction not based on biological sex or gender identity)
Undecided

How much do you agree with the following statement: I have high self-esteem.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

Comments:

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Read each statement carefully. Think about how the statement applies to you and choose how strongly you agree or disagree with the statement. If you are not sure what a statement really means or have a problem with one of the statements, please copy the statement and add your comments in the box at the end of the page.
I have no problems initiating sex.
Strongly Agree
Agree
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Strongly Disagree

I worry that I won't be able to stop something I don't want in a sexual situation.
Strongly Agree
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I can talk to my partner about what I want when it comes to sexual activity.
Strongly Agree
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It would bother me if a sexual partner neglected my sexual needs and desires.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

In a sexual situation, I know what I want but don't know how to get it.
Strongly Agree
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I feel okay about saying "no" in a sexual situation.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
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I feel I can easily be talked into sexual activities I don't want.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
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I don't know how to deal with pressure for sex from my partner.
Strongly Agree
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I feel I can control the situation when a partner pressures me for sex that I don't want.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

I would not hesitate to ask for what I want sexually from a partner.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

Sometimes I do things sexually because I feel like I have to just to fit in or be normal.
Strongly Agree
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I feel good about my ability to directly voice my sexual desires.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

I would expect a sexual partner to be responsive to my sexual needs and feelings.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

There's a lot of pressure about sex, but I feel like I make my decisions about sex based only on what I want and need.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I am able to ask a partner to provide the sexual stimulation I need.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I am in control of and am responsible for the sexual aspects of my life.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

My sexual behaviors are largely determined by others (my partner, parents, family, friends, etc).
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

To be sexual, I have to conform to other people's ideas of sexuality.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

It is okay for me to meet my own sexual needs through self-masturbation.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

If a partner were to ignore my sexual needs and desires, I'd feel hurt or be upset.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

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Read each statement carefully. Think about how the statement applies to you and choose how strongly you agree or disagree with the statement. If you are not sure what a statement really means or have a problem with one of the statements, please copy the statement and add your comments in the box at the end of the page.
I like my sexuality.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I feel guilty after performing a sexual act for my partner.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I feel comfortable with my sexual orientation.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

When I feel sexually aroused, I feel ashamed.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I feel there is nothing wrong with my sexual desires.
Strongly Agree
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I feel guilty after I have an orgasm.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I like who I am as a sexual person.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I feel like my sexual desires are wrong.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I feel humiliated when someone hits on me in a public space.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I feel anxious when I think about the sexual aspects of my life.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I do not feel guilty about my sexual fantasies.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

I am uncomfortable with my sexuality.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

My sexual behaviors are in line with my moral values.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

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Below are a list of characteristics or personality traits. For each pair, rate how much you see yourself as those characteristics. I see myself as......
 
Agree strongly
Agree moderately
Agree a little
Neither agree or disagree
Disagree a little
Disagree moderately
Disagree strongly
Extraverted, enthusiastic.
Critical, quarrelsome.
Dependable, self-disciplined.
Anxious, easily upset.
Open to new experiences, complex.
Reserved, quiet.
Sympathetic, warm.
Disorganized, careless.
Calm, emotionally stable.
Conventional, uncreative.

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Read each statement carefully. Think about how the statement applies to you and choose how strongly you agree or disagree with the statement. If you are not sure what a statement really means or have a problem with one of the statements, please copy the statement and add your comments in the box at the end of the page.
My family accepts my sexuality.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I think society is generally accepting of the sexual behaviors and beliefs that make up my sexuality.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I have to hide aspects of my sexuality from people I am close to.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I feel disappointed with my sex life.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I cannot tell my partner all my sexual desires because I am afraid my partner will not accept them or even feel disgusted.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

My partner accepts my sexuality.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

There are people in my life who understand my sexuality and accept it.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

Overall, I feel I have high self-esteem when it comes to sexuality.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

My friends accept my sexuality.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

People are okay with my sexuality where I live, but most places would not accept my sexuality.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I am not satisfied with my current sex life, but overall, I still feel good about myself as a sexual person.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

Right now my sex life is pretty good, but I still don't feel very good about my sexuality.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I would feel more comfortable with the sexual part of my life if I lived somewhere that was more accepting.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

Comments:

Why did you choose to participate in this study and take this survey?
I am a student and I get class credit or extra credit for participating in this study.
To win the $40 gift card raffle.
I like taking surveys.
I think this kind of research is important and I wanted to help.
I'm interested in the research topic.
Other:

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K YOU!

The survey is over, but this is only the first part of this research. Below you have three choices. You can just go straight to the raffle entry page, you can go straight to part 2 of this survey, or you can provide your email address and have part 2 emailed to you so you can take it at a later time.

Are you interested in taking Survey 2?
I don't want to take Survey 2. (Choosing this option will take you to a different site where you can enter the $40 gift card raffle).
Take me to survey 2. (At the end of this 20-30 minute survey you will still be able to enter the raffle and your raffle entry will be counted TWICE just like if you took the surveys separately.)
I want to take survey 2, but not right now. I'll give an email address below and you can send it to me to take another time. (Choosing this option will still take you to the raffle entry page.)

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If you give your email address, it will not be shared with anyone or used for any reason other than this research.

Your email address will not be connected to the survey you just took or any future surveys you take. Instead, your email address and your survey responses will both be assigned the same distinct, random number. That number will be connected to your survey responses instead of your email address. The "key" that will link the numbers to the email addresses will always be kept on a secure USB flash drive completely separate from the survey data. In other words, your survey answers from this survey and any future surveys will be linked to each other, but your email address or any emails you send to or receive from me will NOT be connected to your survey answers. This is to make sure you can answer openly and honestly and remain anonymous. The key, along with any record of your email address or email correspondence, will be destroyed by May 1, 2014 (5 years after research completion).
Thank you for choosing to participate in the second part of this research.
Take survey 2 now
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Read each statement carefully. Think about how the statement applies to you and choose how strongly you agree or disagree with the statement. If you are not sure what a statement really means or have a problem with one of the statements, please copy the statement and add your comments in the box at the end of the page.
I am afraid of losing control sexually.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

Sometimes I give in to a sexual desires even though I had decided it wasn't something I wanted to do.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

When it comes to sex, I know what I want overall, but sometimes what I want in the moment wins out.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I know what kinds of sexual activity I'm okay with doing, but when I'm with a partner, I get confused and sometimes do things I end up regretting.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

Sometimes my head and my body feel different things when it comes to sex, but I am happy with the decisions I make.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I feel good about how I manage my sexual needs, worries, and desires.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

Sometimes I avoid sexual activity altogether because I'm afraid of one thing leading to another and doing something I know I don't want to do and I know I'll regret later.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I am where I want to be sexually, at this point in my life.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

I feel good about the place of sex in my life.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

Sometimes I wish I could forget about sex.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

I find my own sexuality a bit scary.
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

The "sexual me" is not the "real me."
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I wish sex were less a part of my life.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
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I like what I have learned about myself from my sexual experiences.
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

Being sexual is just another part of who I am.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

My sexuality is an important aspect of my identity.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
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If I tried to not be a sexual person, I would feel like I wasn't really being myself.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
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I try to ignore my sexuality as much as possible.
Strongly Agree
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Demographics & Life Satisfaction
Please fill out the demographic questions below. These answers cannot be used to connect you to your survey responses or used to identify you.
Describe the neighborhood where you grew up. The projects? Suburban neighborhood? Urban environment? Inner city? Ghetto? Small town? Rural farm/ranch?

Describe the neighborhood where you live now. The projects? Suburban neighborhood? Urban environment? Inner city? Ghetto? Small town? Rural farm/ranch?

Ability status: Below are areas where having different abilities may cause impairment or handicap in social interactions. Please choose any or all areas that apply to you.
(Select all that apply.)
Blind
Deaf
Mental Developmental impairment (including Autism spectrum)
Reading/Writing impairment (including dyslexias)
Mood disorders - Unipolar or bipolar depression, anxiety/panic disorders
Psychosis - Mental disorders with psychotic/hallucinatory symptoms including schizophrenia
Mobility impairment - Physical ability to walk, run, stand, or lift is hindered
Visibly evident - Your ability status is immediately visible to others
Restricts employability - Your ability status limits the kind or amount of work you can do.
Sexual dysfunction - Your ability to achieve physical arousal, experience orgasm, or give sexual pleasure to a partner is hindered.
Other:

Who lives with you in your home?
(Select all that apply.)
Parents
Siblings
Grandparents
Your children
Other family members (aunts, cousins, etc)
Roommate
A serious romantic/sexual partner

Relationship status:
Single
Dating, non-committed
Sexual partners, but no relationship
Long-term, committed relationship
Formalized long-term, committed relationship (through marriage, civil union, commitment ceremony)
Separated/Divorced
Widow/er

Sexual experience: Please choose how you would describe your level of sexual experience.
No or Very little sexual experience
A little sexual experience
Some sexual experience
A lot of sexual experience

Sexual partners: How many sexual partners have you had in your life-time?
0
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
#:

Short-term partners: How many of your sexual relationships lasted 3 months or less?
None (0%)
A few (25%)
Some (33%)
Half (50%)
Many (66%)
Most (74%)
All (100%)

How much do you agree with the following statements? In most ways, my life is close to my ideal.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

The conditions of my life are excellent.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I am satisfied with my life.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

So far, I have gotten the important things I want in life.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

If I could live my life over, I would change almost nothing.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

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Read each statement carefully. Think about how the statement applies to you and choose how strongly you agree or disagree with the statement. If you are not sure what a statement really means or have a problem with one of the statements, please copy the statement and add your comments in the box at the end of the page.
I feel good about my ability to perform sexually.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I wish I were better at sex.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

I have a hard time meeting people I'm interested in sexually.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

It is not hard for me to find sexual partners.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

I often get too nervous or scared to ask someone I like for a date.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

I have a hard time meeting people who are sexually interested in me.
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I know a lot about sexual pleasure.
Strongly Agree
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I feel good about my understanding of my own sexual anatomy.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

I feel like I don't really understand how my partner's sexual anatomy works.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

I am confident that I can give my partner sexual pleasure.
Strongly Agree
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I worry that my partner is "faking it" or doesn't enjoy sex with me as much as s/he acts like s/he does.
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I feel I have many sexual skills to pleasure a partner.
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I am confident about myself as a sexual partner.
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Sometimes I worry that I don't really please my partner sexually.
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I am sure that I can bring my partner to orgasm.
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I am a sexually talented person.
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I am confident in my ability to feel pleasure when I'm with a partner.
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My body doesn't react very much to sexual stimulation.
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I feel good about my ability to become aroused.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I don't really enjoy sex or masturbation.
Strongly Agree
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I feel okay about my ability to reach orgasm.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

I am confident about my ability to reach orgasm with a partner.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

I feel good about my ability to meet my own sexual needs through masturbation.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

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I think I am sexy.
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree

I only feel comfortable enough to have sex if it is dark so that my partner cannot clearly see my body.
Strongly Agree
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Strongly Disagree

I would feel very nervous if a partner were to explore my body before or after having sex.
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My partner thinks I'm sexy.
Strongly Agree
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No one finds me attractive.
Strongly Agree
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I like my body.
Strongly Agree
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During sexual activity it is difficult not to think about how unattractive my body is.
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I wish I were sexier.
Strongly Agree
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I worry that some parts of my body would be disgusting to a sexual partner.
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It bothers me that I'm not better looking.
Strongly Agree
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I am confident that a romantic partner would find me sexually attractive.
Strongly Agree
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I am confident that others will find me sexually desirable.
Strongly Agree
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I have good body image.
Strongly Agree
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Disagree
Strongly Disagree

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Read each statement carefully. Think about how the statement applies to you and choose how strongly you agree or disagree with the statement.
 
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
I think of myself as a very good sexual partner.
I am uncomfortable in letting my partner know what I want in a sexual encounter.
I worry that I am not sexually desirable to others.
I feel physically vulnerable in a sexual encounter.
I feel okay about telling my partner what I want in a sexual encounter.
I worry that things will get out of hand because I can't always tell what my partner wants in a sexual situation.
I would rate my sexual skill quite highly.
My partner seems to get the wrong message about what I want sexually.
Physically, I am an attractive person.
I worry that I will be taken advantage of sexually.
I wish things were different for me sexually.
I believe self-masturbation is wrong.
At times I have been afraid of what I might do sexually.
I am a good sexual partner.
All in all, I feel satisfied with my sex life.
I don't feel ready for some of the things I am doing sexually.
Sexual relationships have caused more trouble for me than they're worth.
I feel troubled about the sexual aspects of my life.
I am glad that feelings about sex have become a part of my life.
I feel I can usually judge how my partner will regard my wishes about how far to go sexually.
Other people have an easier time with their sex lives than I do.
I would rate myself low as a sexual partner.
I am able to get what I want sexually when I want it.
In general, I feel my sexual experiences have given me a more positive view of myself.
If I were to have sex with someone, I'd show my partner what I want.
I think it is important for a sexual partner to consider my sexual pleasure.
I believe self-masturbating can be an exciting experience.

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These items describe different aspects of identity. Please read each item carefully and consider how it applies to you and your sense of who you are.
 
Not important to my sense of who I am.
Slightly important to my sense of who I am.
Somewhat important to my sense of who I am.
Very important to my sense of who I am.
Extremely important to my sense of who I am.
My personal values and moral standards.
My popularity with other people.
Being a part of many generations of my family.
My dreams and imagination.
The ways in which other people react to what I saw and do.
My ability to perform sexually: to reach orgasm and please a partner.
My personal goals and hopes for the future.
My physical appearance: my height, my weight, and the shape of my body.
My religion.
My emotions and feelings.
My commitment to being a concerned relationship partner.
My reputation, what others think.
Places where I live or where I was raised.
My thoughts and ideas.
My attractiveness to other people.
The ways I deal with my fears or anxieties.
My sex, being a male or female.
My feeling of being a unique person, being distinct from others.
My gender identity: how other people see my femininity or masculinity.
My social class, the economic group I belong to, whether lower, middle, or upper class.
Knowing that I continue to be essentially the same inside even though life involves many external changes.
Connecting on an intimate level with another person.
My gestures and mannerisms, the impression I make on others.
My feeling of belonging to my community.
My self-knowledge, my ideas about what kind of person I really am.
My desire to understand the true thoughts and feelings of my best friend or romantic partner.
My social behavior, such as the way I act when meeting people.
My feeling of pride in my country, being proud to be a citizen.
My personal self-evaluation, the private opinion I have of myself.
My commitments on political issues and my political activities.
My language, such as my regional accent or dialect or a second language I know.
My sexual orientation, whether heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual.
My race or ethnic background.
My romantic relationships: whether or not I'm in a relationship and my relationship style.

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